Friday, March 30, 2012

No Merry Widow


It's been two weeks since Tom's passing.
At first, Nicole seems alright, grooming herself as usual and all that.
Then, she began to hide in the study and didn't come out when called.
Then she stopped eating.

So, last night, my Mama scooped her out of her hiding place.
Had a one-to-one session in the bedroom.
Oh yeah...tears flowed, words flew.....
Nicole then slept on the pillow that Tom usually slept on.

This morning, she has begun to eat again....
Phew! That was a worry....
At least she's not sick.
purrrr.....meow!

34 comments:

Ikah said...

syukurlah! jaga dia bek2 taw. Nak bermanjalah tuee..MMUah to nicole

Lady of Leisure said...

Alala kesiannya nicole.. Be strong ok.. RIP tom..
Hugs n kisses from arri n molly for nicole..

masterwordsmith said...

My deepest condolences, dear Angelina. I was away on vacation and did not check blogs...So sorry I only found out. May he always rest in peace.

Take care and cherish the memories.

Salam

NurMisnan said...

Oh dear.. poor Nicole missing Tom.. Aunty Nur miss him too... Tum Tum still single.. No worries.. hik3

Ezza Muffinbiru said...

kesian nya...my olie pun macam tu...all sibling dah gone..mama dia pun hilang..dia jadi keliru..diam jer..nasib baik kakak ada...

Monyet King said...

kucing pun ada feeeeeeeling

Pat said...

I'm sorry I haven't visited for a while, so I didn't hear of Tom's passing. And I'm so sad to hear that Nicole's missing him.

Please give her a big hug for me. I know that, in time, the pain will ease. And then, it will be good to remember him without sadness.

*hugs*

mamasita said...

Alahai..*tears*
Sedih2..:(

Sandy of erwinandsandy.com said...

Poor Nicole :( . Be strong, girl ! *much kisses* I hope your mama prepares you incredibly yummy and nutritious dinner tonight !

The Furries of Whisppy said...

Poor Nicole. Please give her lots of hugs from us.

~Covert_Operations'78~ said...

Poor Nicole and Mama! You both needed to express and release your grief. Tom will always be with you.
xoxoxoxo

mokjadeandell said...

Kesian Nicole...my simpati .Hope you get over it soon...Nina Sandaq.

Repositório said...

OMG!!!!!!!!!!

Carolyn said...

This just proves that cats grieve! Poor Nicole. Good for mama, when she is also very sad xx

Layla ( Cat Wisdom 101) said...

Be gentle and patient. It's not unusual for cats to grieve for six months, even a year. Sending big purrs....

meowwmania said...

sedih dpt tahu berita Tom :(

RIP Tom...

Nicole jgn sesedih yer sayang..jgn buat mama kamu risau

Cat Chat With Caren And Cody said...

OMG I feel awful...I didn't know!!! :(

I am so deeply sorry! I haven't been able to come around to everyone and am doing my best to visit. I just feel like an awful friend that I didn't know!!!

((((((hugs))))) to you and I am beyond sorry!
xoxoxoxo

LP said...

Poor baby girl. Make sure you eat now and don't let your Mama worry about you so much. We all missed Lewis when he suddenly left us too so we understand your sadness very well. It will get better. In time.For everyone.Truly.
Love and hugs to all of you.

the critters in The Cottage xo

Meg said...

Purrs to help ease your sadness.

Wan Sharif said...

Siapa kata binatang tak berhati perut!

Tamago said...

Oh no, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I was away from blogger for a while and I just learned this.....so very sorry. Your precious, sweet Tom. Oh and poor Nicole...I wish I could come over and hug her.
Tom is terribly missed. Sending prayers and warm thoughts to you...

Oskar said...

I'm so sorry for this sad time. I hope love and prayers can heal the wounds.

Hugs,
Oskar & Pam

Katie and Glogirly said...

Oh, sweet Nicole. We are sorry you are missing your love. But happy you are beginning to eat.
love and purrs,
Katie & Glogirly

Brad said...

Thank goodness, she's eating again.
Hopefully time will heal all wounds.
Thinking of you,
Brad

m.q said...

we're so sorry to hear that. be happy Nicole!! we sure Tom will wish for the best for you

BoBo Salem
Meow Meow Family

Sandy of erwinandsandy.com said...

Prof Angelina, we have a situation :
http://www.erwinandsandy.com/daily-dose/the-frequent-visitor
What's your advice ? ><

Clooney said...

Sending Nicole and Mama sweet, gentle, comforting purrs...

i amsterdam said...

Dear Nicole,

Tears flow when I read this, hope will be fine soon. Salaam to your mama..

Au and Target said...

Poor thing. Poor, poor thing. We're purring for both of you at this sad time. Please give Nicole an extra cuddle for us. Meow from Au, Target and Guido.

Uncle Lee said...

Hi Cat, sad Tom passed on....and never knew cats can have broken hearts too. Kesian la.
Maybe you get anotherTom? A handsome Persian?
Chepat she lupa Tom....
You keep well.
Lee.

Malay-Kadazan girl said...

Its really hard when you lost your love ones. My grandmama dog starved himself to death when my grandmama passed away even when my aunt try hard to coax him to eat. He kept on staying beside our grandmama grave. Hope she will be herself soon.

aby said...

at least a happy ending ..
hope nicole having a normal living by now ...

Cheqna said...

ohhhh..I feel sad too reading this..hope Nicole is ok now..her mama too.

GRAÇA said...

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